If you hold something tight till you kill it
And that's what flytraps do
'Cause if you just allow it to settle on your hand and fly where it wants
Like a bird or a butterfly
It could come back and settle and then swing to fly

So the hand needs to be an open hand
Gentle, open hand
It's about being free, but it's not about not being loving
Actually, but you kill the love if you, if you crush it
You can't do that to people
That's not love
That's possession